LORD, TEACH US TO PRAY

By W. Frank Walton


  1. The Foundation of Jesus' Praying
  2. The Frequency of Jesus' Praying
  3. The Facets of Jesus' Praying
  4. With Jesus in The School of Prayer


"Prayer is the voice of faith, the breath of the soul."

"Now it came to pass, as He was praying in a certain place, when He ceased, that one of His disciples said to Him, 'Lord, teach us to pray, as John also taught his disciples'" (Luke 11:1). Jesus' disciple was impressed with His practice of prayer. As a religious Jew, he had prayed all his life. Yet, he felt a need to learn more of Jesus' mighty example in prayer. It is more than merely repeating rote words. Prayer communes with God by expressing the heart's deepest desires (Romans 10:1).

Matthew, Mark, Luke and John record 15 times Jesus prayed. Luke stresses Jesus' humanity as the "Son of Man'' and uniquely records 7 occasions of prayer not found in the other gospel accounts. Jesus prayed at every important event in his life, and all the time in between. If He needed to pray, how much more do we! His life of virtue and spiritual power towers above our moral weakness and failure. To live like Christ, we must learn to pray like Christ. We can discover His source of spiritual power. Harry Pickup, Sr. told a story of a child's Bible class in which the children were drawing a Bible story picture. A little boy got down between the chairs and knelt on the floor. When the teacher asked him what he was doing, he said, "I'm asking Jesus' help to draw this picture." We need the childlike faith to say with that unnamed disciple, "Lord, teach us to pray!"

THE FOUNDATION OF JESUS' PRAYING

An intimate relationship with God was foundational to Jesus' power in prayer. Jesus taught and modeled prayer in approaching God as a dear Father "In this manner, therefore, pray: Our Father in heaven, Hallowed be Your name." (Matthew 6:9; cf. Luke 11:2). Prayer is a family affair. God is approached as our personal Father in heaven. From His youth, Jesus knew Jehovah God was His real Father, not Joseph (Luke 2:49). In His greatest crisis in Gethsemane, Jesus cried out to His "Abba Father'' (Mark 14:36). There's no record in ancient Judaism of any Jew calling God "Abba.'' This was the first word a little child would learn and call to his "papa.'' It is a word of intimate trust, love and endearment. Is this how you see your Father in heaven? He should not be an abstract idea but a real spiritual Father.

Have you been born again and adopted into God's family? A close family tie is essential to claim the right of prayer. You must be in a right relationship with God as His child "For you are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus. For as many of you as were baptized into Christ have put on Christ....And because you are sons, God has sent forth the Spirit of His Son into your hearts, crying out, "Abba, Father!" (Galatians 3:26-27;4:6; cf. Rom. 8:14-16). If you haven't been born again and adopted into God's family, you don't have God as your spiritual Father. If you won't listen to God by obeying His gospel call, He won't listen to you (Proverbs 29:9; 1 Pet. 5:5b).

Have you ever wished you had someone you were really close to that you could literally talk anything over with? Is this how you think of your loving, caring Father in heaven? God wants His children to come to Him anytime, anywhere, about anything of concern. "For the eyes of the LORD are on the righteous, And His ears are open to their prayers....casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you" (1 Peter 3:12; 5:7). Franklin Delano Roosevelt, Jr. once approached his father, FDR, in the Oval office with a serious personal problem. After explaining the problem at length, FDR looked up and said, "Thanks for stopping by" and continued to work at his desk. He was too busy and distracted to listen. FDR, Jr. often had to schedule an appointment to see his father. God offers supreme love and undivided attention in prayer.

We must confess and forsake sin to maintain the benefits of this "family talk'' (Psalm 66:18; James 4:8). Confession in prayer means God will forgive and abundantly pardon (1 John 1:9).

THE FREQUENCY OF JESUS' PRAYING

1. A Regular Habit. Jesus made regular time to commune with His Father, even when busy and popular with the masses. "The report went around concerning Him all the more; and great multitudes came together to hear, and to be healed by Him of their infirmities. So He Himself often withdrew into the wilderness and prayed" (Luke 5:15-16). When things were going His way, He still needed to stay close to heaven. He made time to break away from His busy schedule. If we're too busy to pray, we're too busy!

Regular prayer is a reservoir of the soul to replenish our spiritual energy. "Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need" (Hebrews 4:16). Let nothing stand between you and regular time of prayer. "Pray without ceasing" (1 Thessalonians 5:16). It's been said, "Seven days without prayer makes one weak." We need to be "continuing steadfastly in prayer" (Romans 12:12). This helps to keep things in eternal perspective. It also helps us to stay close to God. Christians usually do not fall away from God overnight, but it is a gradual drift. The frequent practice of fervent, private prayer is the best training to lead public prayer in the worship assembly. Husbands and wives can strengthen their marriage and spirituality by praying together. Parents need to pray regularly with their children, such as at the supper table.

After a demanding day, Jesus needed to pray first thing in the morning more than He needed sleep. "Now in the morning, having risen a long while before daylight, He went out and departed to a solitary place; and there He prayed" (Mark 1:35). Like Jesus, we can begin each day with prayer to help us meet the day's duties: ``Lord, help me to be a stronger Christian. Help me to be faithful to you. Help me to be a good example and deal with each situation and person as you would have me to.'' When we feel burdened with a load of care, let us rise up early and follow Jesus to a private place of prayer.

Jesus withdrew in the late evening to a mountain to pray alone (Matthew 14:23). Jesus closed the day with prayer. "Stitch in each day with prayer and it won't unravel in the middle." Pray at night and review the day. Was your life pleasing to God? End the day with your last thoughts of God. Parents, a good time to pray with your children is at bedtime.

2. At Critical Times. In all the important events of His life, Jesus turned to God in prayer. Do we?

Consecration. "When all the people were baptized, it came to pass that Jesus also was baptized; and while He prayed, the heaven was opened" (Luke 3:21). His baptism was the time of acceptance and consecration to His public mission of saving sinners (Matthew 3:13-15). It was a righteousness act in God's will that fulfilled His identification with sinners that He came to save. He was found in prayer. Also, Luke 9:18-51 shows Jesus consecrated in prayer (vv. 18,21-22). This pivotal time marks the final home stretch toward the crucifixion in Jerusalem.

We need to be found in prayer when we consecrate ourselves to God's will, such as at baptism, the weekly partaking of the Lord's supper and each important task (1 Corinthians 11:23-32; Romans 12:1-2,12; Acts 6:4; 13:1). Each of us has a mission from God, consecrated to obeying God at all times. Pray for help and wisdom to be faithful. God's work can only be done in the strength God supplies (Ephesians 6:10-13; Philippians 4:13).

Decision. "Now it came to pass in those days that He went out to the mountain to pray, and continued all night in prayer to God. And when it was day, He called His disciples to Himself; and from them He chose twelve whom He also named apostles" (Luke 6:12-13). Jesus spent all night praying over this momentous decision of selecting the apostles. Jesus would pour His life into theirs. They would carrying on the gospel cause after His departure. The eternal destiny of millions is at stake. His vigil of prayer insured His action would be in harmony with the Father's will.

We may pray all night at a hospital emergency room for a loved one at death's door. Yet, we also need to pray long and hard over important decisions like: who to date, what college to attend, what career to pursue, when and where to make a job move, how to discipline a child, who to have as friends, how and when to approach a sinner with gospel, etc. After prayer, it will be a more spiritual decision in harmony with God's will.

Temptation. In Luke 9:12-17, Jesus feeds the 5,000. "Therefore when Jesus perceived that they were about to come and take Him by force to make Him king, He departed again to the mountain by Himself alone" (John 6:15). He could have been their King, which would be a tempting short-cut from the cross. Jesus overcame temptation by seeking refuge in prayer. "And when He had sent the multitudes away, He went up on the mountain by Himself to pray. Now when evening came, He was alone there" (Matthew 14:23).

When we're tempted to sin, the last thing the Devil wants us to do is to pray to God. Temptation is designed to seduce us away from God (James 1:14). Prayer keeps us close to God, removes the deceptive mask of sin and blunts its alluring pull. Sin will keep us from praying or praying will keep us from sin.

Suffering. After enduring the cross' agony, Jesus prayed. "And when Jesus had cried out with a loud voice, He said, 'Father, into Your hands I commit My spirit'" (Luke 23:46). This was the nighttime prayer learned by every Jewish child from Psalm 31:5. Jesus wasn't bitter toward God in His suffering. He died with a trusting prayer on His lips. Prayer cushioned the jagged edge of death. He clung to God through the ordeal. Jesus shows us suffering can be overcome if we give ourselves in total trust to God's will.

When we suffer pain or disappointment, don't become bitter at God. "When it's hardest to pray, pray hardest." Remain faithful to the work He has given you to do. With a trusting prayer on our lips, God can see us through the very worst of times. "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:6-7).

THE FACETS OF JESUS' PRAYING

Of course, the sinless Christ had no sins to confess, as we must do in prayer. Yet, notice these elements of His praying we can imitate:

1. Praise. "Jesus rejoiced in the Spirit and said, 'I praise You, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, that You have hidden these things from the wise and prudent and revealed them to babes. Even so, Father, for so it seemed good in Your sight" (Luke 10:21). After the successful preaching mission and return of the seventy disciples, Jesus praised God for His perfect plan to save humble, teachable men in contrast to the worldly wise.

We praise what impresses us, whether it be a beautiful day, a magnificent sunset or a delicious meal. Contemplating the glorious ways and works of God summons spontaneous praise from our heart. Praise extols, honors, reveres and magnifies God's Person. "Hallowed be Your Name" (Luke 11:2). The more we know God, the more we delight in adoring Him in prayer. Praising God recognizes and rejoices in the perfections of God's character. His greatness is beyond telling.

2.Thanksgiving. Before feeding the 5,000, Jesus sought God's blessing on the food and gave thanks for the food (Lk. 9:15-17; Jn. 6:11). He gave thanks for small things, like 5 loaves and 2 fish. We need to thank God for all our many blessings, even little things. "In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you" (1 Thessalonians 5:18). What are you truly thankful for? Every good thing we have comes from God. Worry distorts our memory and we forget how blessed we are. Prayers seasoned with thanksgiving help us to keep a grateful perspective.

3.Supplication. "And He was withdrawn from them about a stone's throw, and He knelt down and prayed, saying, 'Father, if it is Your will, take this cup away from Me; nevertheless not My will, but Yours, be done.' Then an angel appeared to Him from heaven, strengthening Him. And being in agony, He prayed more earnestly. Then His sweat became like great drops of blood falling down to the ground" (Luke 22:40-44). Jesus staggers at the ordeal of the cross. His darkest hour found Him in prayer. He requested 2 things: to be spared the cross and to have God's will done. God said "no'' to the first but gave strength to carry out the second.

God gives what is best to our heartfelt requests. God wants to bless us with our requests in His will (1 John 5:14-15). He answers all requests by either "yes," "no," or "wait." The glory and honor of God should motivate all our requests. All purely selfish prayer is wrong (James 4:3). Prayer is not using God selfishly as the big bellhop in the sky. Praying in God's will gets us in a position so He can use us. It has been said, "Prayer is not getting man's will done in heaven as it is furthering God's will on earth. Prayer is not overcoming God's reluctance, but it is laying hold of His willingness."

4.Intercession. "Then Jesus said, 'Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do' (Luke 23:34). Jesus interceded for his tormentors as prophesied (Isaiah 53:12). Surrounded by hateful rejection, He lovingly cared for them to pray for their spiritual welfare.

When we're wronged, leave it to God's justice to settle the score (1 Peter 2:18-23). We cannot harbor hate or grudges against those who abuse and persecute us, when we carry their name before God's throne in prayer (Matthew 5:44). Intercession for those who have hurt you can liberate and cleanse your soul of resentment and anger.

As Jesus interceded for Peter (Luke 22:31-32), pray for those struggling in life's trials and temptations . Be a blessing to someone -- specifically pray for them. It will help and encourage them as nothing else will (2 Corinthians 1:11).

WITH JESUS IN THE SCHOOL OF PRAYER

Prayer is more than words. Jesus' masterful example showcases the power of prayer. Like Jesus, calling home to our Father in heaven will be a refuge and solace for our soul. We learn by doing, just as we learn to walk by walking. We learn to pray by praying, as we follow the Master's teaching and example.

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